I am 32 years married.  My wife (and kids) literally saved my life.  Prior to my marriage, I was a knucklehead.  Bad decisions upon bad decisions.  Impulsiveness, debauchery, lust, drugs, drunkenness, you name it. My wife calmed me (a bit) and gave my life new purpose.  I was and am still me, but I have been able to channel my energies toward building – a family, career, some wealth, friends, faith, and most importantly, a better me. Occasionally, I still enjoy the random weekend “with the guys.”  A time where we let loose and relive our lost youth.  Beer 30.  “It’s 5 o’clock somewhere.”  Caution to the wind.  Physical antics, which the body takes (much) longer to recover from. But at the end of the day, I take a step back and tell myself: Self, don’t screw it up!  Oftentimes, it is also my wife, reminding me that “you’re not as young as you used to...(Read Full Post)