The Cure for Confused Male/Female Relationships
At our annual Labor Day family reunion, I surprisingly found myself in conversations in which male/female relations was a reoccurring theme.
A happily married female relative told me about five of her middle-aged girlfriends who are looking for husbands. She said they probably will not be successful because they are domineering women who refuse to respect a man.
A gentleman said he asked his wife to prepare him a plate of food from the buffet, which she did happily. A radical feminist scolded his wife, “Why did you do that? There is nothing wrong with his feet and hands!” The gentleman told the bitter woman to stay out of their relationship.
A young female relative cornered me at the dessert table. She ranted about how her dating pool is filled with boys rather than real men like her dad. “I am so tired of wearing the pants in every relationship. I would gladly take off the pants and hand them over to a real man. I'll even cut the pants off, turning them into shorts if it will make him feel better. I just want a responsible adult male that I can respect and depend on.”
At poolside watching the kids have a ball in the pool, a frustrated young father told me his vindictive ex-wife selfishly uses their 12-year-old son as a pawn. Over the years, he has spent thousands in attorney fees for visitation rights. I praised him for fighting to stay a part of his son's life, whom he brought to the reunion.
Male/female relations are a mess, folks. America is suffering the dire consequences of allowing radical feminists and progressive anti-biblical ideology to dominate our culture.
Progressive schools, radical feminists and Hollywood have absurdly taught young women that gender equality means they must reject their femininity and physically compete with men. Several ridiculous movies feature 100-pound women beating the crap out of 300-pound men. The absurd message is men and women are the same.
Consequently, far too many young women are clueless regarding the tremendous power of their God given femininity. Remember that song in the musical, The Flower Drum Song titled, “I Enjoy Being a Girl”? Celebrating femininity is deemed offensive and oppressive today.
As a child, our choir was on a bus trip. The bus was ready to leave and some of the kids had not returned to the bus. Our choir director, Miss Robena said, “Lloyd you can run fast. Run back and tell the kids to hurry.” I ran as fast as I could because I wanted to please Miss Robena. That's the power of femininity.
Progressives claim to be our superiors regarding advocating for people of color. And yet, progressives promote anti-biblical and irresponsible behaviors which produce problems that plague urban blacks. For example: The Oxygen channel produced a reality TV show titled, “All My Babies' Mammas”. The show irresponsibly celebrated a black rapper who has 11 kids by 10 black women.
Fatherless households negatively impact urban blacks, causing a cycle of generational poverty, addiction to government dependency, black-on-black crime, gang membership, high incarceration and epidemic school dropout rates. The dirty little secret is the Democrats' insidiously evil game-plan is to keep their constituents on the government dependency plantation.
This is why every 2020 Democrat presidential candidate is promising free everything, including a monthly check to able-bodied Americans who simply refuse to work. Trump's economy has created more jobs than there are people to fill them. Trump has reduced black unemployment to a historic low.
Black Entertainment Television (BET) is extremely hypocritical. While claiming to be super advocates for blacks, BET has partnered with progressives promoting debauchery which contributes greatly to the moral and cultural decay of urban blacks.
Due to politically correct mixed messaging, men and women are confused about how to relate to each other; rejecting their biological instincts. Feminist women magazines say it is insulting for the man to automatically pick up the check at dinner. They say the woman should have an opportunity to pay for the meal. However, if he allows her to pay, the woman should run from him.
Dad taught my three younger brothers and me that when we took a girl on a date, as men, it was our responsibility to return her home safely. Even at our peril.
Adding to the confusion about how males and females should relate to each other is the implementation of the LGBTQ curriculum in schools which teach kids to reject nature's definition of male and female. Thank God hundreds of parents in California pulled their kids out of school in protest of the LGBTQ curriculum.
In the progressives' relentless war against nature, we are bombarded 24/7 with the glorification of same-sex attraction. The TV cooking show Chopped would have us believe a third of America's chefs are involved in same-sex relationships which is an absurd lie. Only 2-3% of the population is homosexual.
The progressives' latest attack on normal male/female relationships is an NBC News report, “Heterosexuality is just not working.” The report claims that men are so horrible that women are opting out of heterosexuality and choosing to become lesbians. Wait a minute -- haven't LGBTQ activists insisted that people are born homosexual and it is not a choice?
While claiming they only want tolerance, the real agenda of LGBTQ activists is to demonize heterosexuality and throw people in jail who publicly disapprove of the LGBTQ lifestyle.
Our Creator has provided the perfect instruction manual to achieve happy and fulfilling male/female relationships -- the Bible. Progressives despise God's instructions and seek to implement their hideously evil and destructive perversion.
Lloyd Marcus, The Unhyphenated American